Washing feet with Jesus…

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Dear caregiving sister,

Did you know that you’re following in the way that Jesus taught His disciples? Your commitment and care for your spouse is like Jesus washing the disciples’ dirty feet.

Those roads in Jerusalem were dusty and mixed with animal droppings. Sandaled feet were gross when they reached their destination! Multiply that times twelve. No wonder no one jumped for the washbowl and basin.

This life I lead, well, it’s not the fulfillment of all my hopes and dreams. Some of them have been crushed along the way.

But through this crushing I’ve come to understand so much more vividly the compassion and self-sacrificial love of Jesus for broken people. Dusty people. Sometimes self-focused. Face it. When you’re tired and especially hurting bodily, it’s hard not to be centered on making life less miserable for yourself.

Compassion for the hurting is a theme I can’t get away from. Compassion goes viral when there’s a precious, beautiful little child involved.

Not so much when it involves an aged senile person or someone suffering a lengthy chronic illness (though we have been blown away by the kindness of friends and church family).

My mom and sister have the care of my bedridden, aged, and often combative and senile grandmother. There’s nothing pretty about their daily job for the past three years now. The diapers, the laundry, the schedule that’s always tied down.

It’s a load I can do little to lighten. My own hands have been full.

Mom and sis are some of the most beautiful ladies I know. Their compassion and care continue to inspire me. Knowing that others are in the trenches faithfully showing compassion reminds me that this is life worth living.

Other beautiful women have served Jesus in the hidden byways: Ruth serving Naomi, Gladys Alyward saving hundreds of orphans, those who served the leper colonies, halfway house workers, Amy Carmichael rescuing sex-trafficked young girls in India, a list of Jesus-followers that grows by the day!

Caregiving seems way less glamorous than the list above, right? It’s certainly not romantic. But the God of all comfort, the Father of mercies sees and knows.

When you show kindness for the “least of these”, you do this for Christ. You and I become more like Christ. Being like Christ! Now isn’t this life’s ultimate goal — the fulfillment of all of your dreams and mine?  If I really stop to remember this, it fills my heart with such hope! His good work in and through me goes on.

 Praying you wake up tomorrow with courage and strength to face a new week in Jesus’ name.

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